Allowing
Oh man it’s been awhile since I last wrote on here. I have been so laser focused in my current definite purpose of real estate . Pieces constantly flow towards me that sometimes I forget to allow. Yet allowing is the most important part. Get out of your own way. I think it can much only be experienced rather than described. Yet this state of well-being ALLOWS that what a person wants to flow into their existence and creation. Or what I think… into their creation of existence.
Today a internet marketer spoke with me that I had her card for a while now, but only now did I feel encouraged to call her. And when I did it reminded me of my original first of the year business plan. In second quarter I wanted Emily full time and starting in May I am going to employ her full time. I’m not worried because my capital reserve is well established. I still have to perform, yet but enhancing my performance is the goal. It’s measured ultimately by results. I think some people can do it less complicated than others simply because results stem from you just getting out of your own way.
The Law of Allowing requires you have solid feelings of well-being and recognizing the blessings of life and the opportunity of now. Take action and move forward with it.
The B Side To The Truth is life is amazing and we get what we create whether we know or not.
Lessons of life
I haven’t blogged in forever for the B Side. I have been extremely focused on my real estate business. A disciplined life will create the success you desire. I think that is most important to understand. You can be and do and have what ever it is you want in life… you have to be willing to do what it takes… to pay the price in creating your life. What are you willing to do to get the results you want? How driven are you?
In just several weeks now we will be blessed in the physical world to have my baby join us. This is the greatest experience of my whole entire existence as far as I am concerned. This type of experience is incredible. A little person to teach and to protect… what a great life.
We must allow silence into our life in order to create in our mind first what we wish to create in our own life. I would recommend often turning off your computers, your cell phones, your Ipads, and just simply be with each other. Be outside doing something and experience what we have been given.
The B Side To The Truth is life is a constant lesson. Every day we learn something new. We learn from our experiences and we create our life. It’s that simple.
Colton – discover your true’ness’
The Speed Of Knowledge
The World is not getting bigger, the World is getting smaller. Bob Proctor
Last night I went to some friends house with my beautiful wife. We were doing a little early season BBQ. Pineapple Maui Burgers to be exact. A delicious juicy hamburger patty topped with BBQ Sauce, Pineapple, and some tasty melted cheese! It is amazing!! Yet as we were starting the BBQ the flames were rather low with low heat. We tapped the propane tank regulator, jiggled some stuff over there, and really we had no idea what the deal was. I quickly pulled out my Iphone and googled the words “propane grill troubleshoot”. Instantly I had exactly what to do to solve the problem. Two minutes later the flames were big and the heat was high!
Literally in a matter of seconds we can google almost any topic you can think of and have information on the subject. I learned in as little as 1 minute exactly what the problem was with the grill and the exact solution to have an amazing flame to grill our delicious Maui Burgers.
The speed of knowledge is lightning fast. Think about 10 years ago. The solution probably could still be quickly found, yet not nearly as fast as pulling my Tablet Phone out of my pocket and quickly surfing this vast World of digital information to almost instantly have knowledge on the subject. Now imagine 20 years ago. I wouldn’t even have been able to research on a computer a solution for that problem. I probably would have had to wait til Monday and spend time trying to get a hold of someone that may or may not be able to help in the situation.
The B Side To The Truth is we are now in a digital information age where our knowledge is increasing at an incredible rate. We can have instant information from China to the USA in a matter of seconds or less!! This is incredible. The question is… what are we doing with this knowledge. Knowledge is merely only potential power! Action is required!
Colton – discover your true’ness’
Gratitude is a game changer!
I wanted to be super quick on this post. Literally my personal life and business life has gone to new heights the last 2 months. This first quarter will be my most successful quarter ever! I was wondering what I was doing so different.
Yes I am prospecting much more, I am closing more often, I am getting more confident. But the biggest game changer of all is how often I am expressing gratitude.
Daily the first thing I do is express gratitude for 10 things that I am thankful for. During the day I have developed the habit to say thank you and share appreciation. The three people I have noticed it has effected the most are: 1st my assistant Emily. 2nd The prospects that I speak too. 3rd Myself. I have found that an expression of appreciation ALLOWS a person self respect and validation. We must validate those that support us and assist us. We must also validate our own self for our success and our adventure in life!
The B Side To The Truth is gratitude is the number one quickest and easiest way possible to raise your emotions in the positive direction. When positive emotion is increased, the doors of ALLOWING are opened and that which is asked for is quickly received! Love what you are and what you have and you will become everything that you see possible!
Colton – discover your true’ness’
The Extra Mile Traffic Report
We all can easily develop an excuse why to pull over and stop when we are driving on the path to success. And we usually do. We usually sale our self on why not. I suggest a person begins to sale him or her self on why.
The people that succeed, no matter what it may be in… sales, athletics, business, anything… the people that succeed go the extra mile.
The great thing about the extra mile is almost no one goes along this stretch of road. The road is nice and clear. Recently I have been listening to top agent interviews and speaking with top agents myself in the real estate world. I’m talking about guys that do 75 transactions a year plus. These guys are literally doing 100 times more prospecting per year than the average agent.
Recently my coach challenged me instead of being at the office by 7:55 am, to be there at 7:45 am. Now I am starting Monday to be at the office by 7:30 am.
I use to think it was stupid be a half hour early before prospecting. Now however it I am starting to realize it may just make me an extra $50,000 to $100,000 in the next 11 months. That’s more than an extra income for most people. I don’t write this to impress people, yet to impress upon people that when getting what you want, it requires going the extra mile and doing what others are not willing to do.
The B Side To The Truth is we can always learn more, be more, do more, and have more. It requires a definiteness of purpose and going the extra mile. Doing 100 times more prospecting than the average agent. Getting there two to three hours before anyone else. Yet most importantly it requires a belief in yourself that you are more than the average. You are HNL! Ho Notha Level!
Colton – discover your true’ness’
The skill of Allowing
A state of allowing is required in order to completley use the law attraction in our life.
I remember “The Secret” craze that began a number of years back. What a great film to pass on the message of what we give is what we get. What we think is what we manifest.
Lately however I have been pondering why so many people still don’t understand the Law of Attraction even though they say they believe it. The results that come from the law of attraction are direct indications on if we are using it’s positive form or it’s negative form. That is why sharing gratitude is so powerful. It identifies the positive form of The Law of Attraction.
See we don’t need to ask over and over and over again for what we want. And Rhonda Byrne says “We only need to put in our order once.” If this is true why is it people put their order in and nothing. They put it in over and over again and still nothing. Well the truth is after the order is made we must ALLOW the delivery of our order. We must welcome it into our life.
What does it mean to allow? It is a state of being. Much similar to that when we feel much gratitude. I would recommend consistently doing gratitude exercises to cultivate this state of allowing. It is a feeling of joy and relaxation. It is a feeling of well-being that flows into our true’nes’ and out to the surroundings of life.
Have you ever noticed some people just radiate great energy and others you can just feel their negative vibrations. It is no wonder only 7% of communication is done through words, no one listens, most people feel! They feel confidence in the body language. They sense confidence in the tonality. They barely remember the words that were said. Yet they always remember how they felt.
The B Side To The Truth is we must ALLOW that what we want into our life. We can allow by consciously creating feelings of ALLOWING such as sharing gratitude often, meditating for 15 to 20 minutes twice a day, serving other people, taking positive action, reading a positive uplifting literature, listening to relaxing music, praying in positive form, and many other useful activities.
Colton – discover your true’ness’.
flight of the dreamer
It’s been just a few clicks since I last posted. See my real estate website to find out why at www.TheWorldsGreatestRealtor.com.
I read a quote the other day by Vincent Van Gogh thats says, ‘I dream of painting then I paint my dream.”
As I have been replaying Abraham Hicks in my ears over and over and over again, the power of creating in my mind and soul has taken me to a next level. We have hundreds of millions of billions of things going on in the World right now. Are they relevant? Some what. Yet reality is most things take us personally off course. Off course? Yes off course from our real task at hand. Creating the life, the feelings, the emotions, and the results we want to experience.
There are so many things we can get wrapped up in during life’s travel that we never stay on course to manifest the things we want.
The B Side To The Truth is we create what we want to manifest first in our mind, seal it with our soul, and perform in with our physical realm. Once we create it, we simply take action to receive it. The more we recognize what great things we have created with gratitude, the more we receive! And they creation is formed from limitless abundance in the infinite creator… God.
Colton – discover your true’ness’
Exercise:
Spend 20 minutes a day visualizing what you want to specifically see in your life. Be definite in your creation. Visit your creation often. Share gratitude before, during, and after your visualization time to acknowledge the great gift you already have… the gift of existence.
Making Big Decisions
“The doors we open and close each day decide the lives we live.”
Often times in life we make decisions that change our life course. The course could be changed for better or for worse. But in the end it is changed forever away from that particular stage.
Making a wrong decision is far better than making no decision at all. Making no decision at all is often what makes us remain idle.
Big decisions however are what make us lay awake at night or pull our hair out. Why? We are constantly thinking “I don’t want to make the wrong decision, this is a big decision.” The more we focus what we don’t want, (ie making a wrong decision) the more likely we will to make a wrong decision. It is what we focus on that becomes real in our life.
The B Side To The Truth is making a decision is the most important thing. Yet when a big and stressful decision in life pops up. Ask yourself… what makes more sense? What does my gut tell me to do? What does my inner self guide me to do at this time? Trust your true’ness’!
Colton – discover your true’ness’
Why do people get the outcomes in life they don’t want? That is because in life we get what we want and we get what we don’t want through the law of attraction.
How many people wake up every morning and the first thing they think about is all of the problems they have and all of the reasons why life sucks? More than likely quite a few! I always hear of people complaining about their job, their financial situation, their over weight mid section, whatever it may be.
It is important to understand you are the way you are because of the vibrations you send out. We can go more into depth another time about how you became habitual in your current vibrations, but what is more important is that you recognize your vibrations.
How does a person recognize their vibrations? Through their feelings. Good feelings = good vibrations. Bad feelings = bad vibrations. Neutral feelings = little or nor vibrations. Vibrations sent out are like giving your self more of those vibrations.
The B Side To The Truth is if you want more happiness, more money, more whatever… Feel good and send forth those thoughts and vibrations. Be more and more consistent with positive vibrations and be more and more consistent at getting what you want when you want it! Life is great. Hell you can breath, and see, and walk, and run… and we complain about the wifi connection moving to slow!? haha Love life and life will love you!!
Colton – discover your true’ness’
Doing what others won’t
Learing more, being more, being more... that is what is required to be your best.
Getting ready for a new year always seems to get me excited. This year more than most. Two years ago was a great kick off as I started the month in January in Florianoplis Brazil. Last year was even better as we headed to Bangkok Thailand and all around the Thai Islands in the south. This year however we have other priorities as a family.
This year we are expecting the greatest joy yet, a wonderful baby girl! This little thing that isn’t even here yet has already increased my positive magnetism and my desire to learn more, be more, and do more!
The key to getting what we want in life is doing what we want in life. If we are not getting the results we want, then we must change doing what we want to do. If we keep doing the same thing, we will keep getting the same result.
My focus of course is to take care of my wonderful family. Take care of… what does that mean? It is up to me to define what that looks like. My specific definition is what is important. By defining my results I can define my actions!
The B Side To The Truth is most people will continue to do the same thing over and over again frustrated with the same results. Yet getting what you want means doing what others won’t do. It means getting up an hour early, starting an hour early, going the extra mile, and becoming bigger, better, faster, and stronger!
Most people will not do what it takes. Will you?
Who do you know that is getting the results that you want? Find out what they are doing… and do it!
